k so my friends and i hang out places a lot and random guys always come up to us on a daily basis and they start conversation by asking us random things/ money and we don't look rich or anything, thats the weird part. anyhows, we start by asking them what school they go to, what people they know, and rumors about those people. what else should we ask? should we bring alcohol and play drinking games? ;) jks we're underageee we're good girls.... (;
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About a year back an old friend I had named "Jack" dated this girl named "Jill". They seemed like a good couple and I was happy for them, but then when me and Jack had some time to chill, he was saying some messed up stuff on how if he couldn't get sex, it was over for them, and If she got pregnant he would leave. I was worried for Jill at this point, and I know I should never get in between a couple, but it got to the point where I needed to tell her. She didn't believe it all too much, and Jack denied everything I said. He then stopped talking to me, and we didn't talk again for a month. After we did start talking again, I found out he dumped Jill, and just said it wasn't working, not even offering to be friends. Me and Jill were already friends, so we talked about it and now she beleived me. We gradually started talking more, and now we are really good friends. Yesterday Jill, her friend, me and my friend all hung out, and somewhere during that time we sat down someplace to eat, and got into a drinking game. The game was you say "I've never (done something)" and if you did do that, you drink. Somewhere in that game we sprung off into a deep conversation, and Jill started to realize exactly what kind of guy I am. Anyway, I feel she is the most amazing girl I've ever met, and I've heard she feels that we can be more than friends, which is how I feel. I would never want to ruin our friendship, but I also don't want her to get treated wrong by a guy, which is something I would never do. So tell me, should I ask her if she feels the same, or keep it how it is?
TL;DR - I like my best friend more than a friend, and would never want to ruin our relationship, but I want to know what she thinks.
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So yesterday I went to this party and my teacher was there. My friend and I are juniors in highschool and weren't drinking. She was drinking as we walked in and put her beer down and turned her head embarrassed and wouldnt say anything or cuss. Then I finally just confronted her and told her my friend and I didn't care if she cussed of drank or whatever and that we weren't going to go tell anyone. And we really wouldnt. So the night moved on and she was fine and she got more comfortable with us there. Then someone asked her if it was weird drinking around her students. She just put her head down and all the other adults there said we just got her over this. And my friend and I said we really didn't care. So later on the adults all played drinking games and there was a guy who was shouting out a bunch of stuff about her that I know had to embarrass her because then she would get really quiet. Next we all played this game together and every time she would say somethin bad she would get all embarrassed. Like she said shit oh I mean shoot and then she said damn or no I meant darn and just stuff like that. Finally she got wasted enough she just didn't care. And she was totally hammered! Its funny to watch anyone drunk but seeing your teacher out of control is hilarious. We kinda learned a lot about our teacher. Like how she was a whore, a big partier and drinker in college and highschool. And that she smokes. Which was weird for all of us because she went out side and someone asked where she was and then said oh she is outside smoking with whoever and everyone was like what ? Maybe she only smokes when she drinks. It was just funny but I'm sure when we left at like 1 am that she was happy we were gone. Now I'm just wondering if it will be awkward for us all or if she will say anything to us it somethin like that. I want to make her feel comfortable with me and become friends with her because she really is cool whether drinking or not. What should I say to her ?
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